3 years-ish before, I met a guy on the internet, we’ll contact him “D”, on Myspace. It absolutely was pretty simple, and he ended up being pretty HOT. And also by pretty, after all SO.CUTE. It wasn’t some huge relationship, I happened to be in between relationships but we contributed songs preferences, a dry (ahem devastatingly amusing) love of life and we both lived-in L.A. Emails slowly progressed to sms to arbitrary phone calls. Once more, maybe not a large love affair, but seriously something with possible.
However ask us to go out, and terminate. This pattern would repeat, repeat, recurring. I would be in their neighborhood and have him to meet up for coffee/lunch but the guy always had plans. Just what a coincidence, correct? We never truly cared also much-I started a new connection and merely filed “D” away as a text/email friend and then he felt very happy to only fade away obviously as my personal connection with my today date progressed.
Now, we are buddies on myspace and Twitter, and then he drunk texts me personally ALL.THE.TIME. The guy emails me new music he thinks I’ll like (I always think itâs great) and he calls me when every couple weeks. Gathering through the social media marketing stalking i have done, he’s singleâ¦goes out continuously, doesn’t have a girlfriend or ten kidsâ¦and there is no reason we now haven’t strung on. If I quit giving an answer to him, I get “Where are you presently? We skip you!” messages, etc. He is lent a virtual hand during hard times in my own existence, sends me little (non creepy) provides for my personal birthday and Christmas time and appears to be a good guyâ¦but it’s so hard to tell, since the guy won’t come out from behind the computer.
It is so perplexing, because although Im so happy in my relationship, We consider “D” a pal. But are we?
I have that possibly the guy will not be that enthusiastic about satisfying me personally face to face, and I also’m ok with this. To tell the truth, I am not enthusiastic about him romantically in virtually any way-I indicate, men who takes 36 months to get something done is not attractive! If he’sn’t curious, or was not interested 3 years agoâ¦why does he keep calling/texting/tweeting/emailing/facebooking?
1. He’s shy/intimidated-this was their excuse before but I am not sure I buy it.
2. he or she is perhaps not who he seems to be on line. My only concern using this would be that his Facebook is apparently filled up with “real” life relatives and buddies, and he always has actually brand-new pictures-I understand where the guy works, where the guy lives-whoa I seem like a creep. HOWEVER-we’ve all heard the Catfish tale, correct? Never ever is too careful! But i am talking about, his mommy clearly comments on their posts, and that I cannot picture she isn’t actual!
3. He loves having an appealing woman give him interest but he does not have to step-up into dish as well as “DO” anything. BINGO.
4. He’s only a weirdo.
I am bending towards 3, and wishing it’s not 4. But at this stage, it’s simply a lot more fascination than everything else-who is my personal mysterious friend “D”? Hello D, you’re probably reading thisâ¦since you stick to me personally on Twitter and all!
What do you guys imagine? Precisely why is it possible you invest a whole lot in some body you never intend to meet? Assist a girl out. ????